What the AI does in this type of conflict
- Brings every complaint back to a concrete fact the other person can check.
- Removes personal attacks and threats (“I’ll call the building manager”).
- Turns demands into requests that can be negotiated.
Rephrasing example
What you write
You are completely irresponsible. If the music keeps going in the evening, I'm calling the building manager.
What they will read
Party A hears the music in the evening and would like that to change. They suggest talking it over together before involving the building manager.
✓ Reviewed and approved by you
Four steps, and you stay in control at each one
- You write, as it comesNo filter. This first draft stays between you and Wassit.
- The AI spots what hurtsJudgments, comparisons, blame, threats: the four patterns that shut a conversation down.
- You review and chooseTwo or three rewrites. Keep one, edit it, or start over. If the message was heated, there's a short pause first.
- They read something they can hearWith a note that you reviewed and approved it.
Limits
If you feel threatened or unsafe, contact the authorities. Wassit does not replace an official report, legal advice or in-person mediation.
Frequently asked questions
Does my neighbour need an account?
Yes. You invite them by email or text message; they create a free account to read your rephrased messages and reply. They never see your first draft.
Does the AI take sides?
No. It never names a culprit and never cites the law: it helps each person express a need and a request the other can hear.
Does the other party see my original message?
Never. They only read the version you have reviewed and approved. If you paste aggressive text back into the suggestion, it is checked again before it is sent.
What happens to my data?
Conversations are deleted automatically after the case is closed. You can withdraw your consent at any time from your dashboard.
Ready to write the first message?
Your original message is never shown to the other party. Creating an account and opening your first case are free.
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