What the AI does in this type of conflict
- Acknowledges the emotion before rephrasing.
- Translates personal attacks (“you’re selfish”) into emotional needs.
- Keeps the facts intact, without hardening or softening them.
Rephrasing example
What you write
You're never here, you act exactly like your father. It's your fault I'm exhausted.
What they will read
Party A feels exhausted and alone with daily life. They need presence and support, and would like to talk about how to share things out.
✓ Reviewed and approved by you
Four steps, and you stay in control at each one
- You write, as it comesNo filter. This first draft stays between you and Wassit.
- The AI spots what hurtsJudgments, comparisons, blame, threats: the four patterns that shut a conversation down.
- You review and chooseTwo or three rewrites. Keep one, edit it, or start over. If the message was heated, there's a short pause first.
- They read something they can hearWith a note that you reviewed and approved it.
Limits
In cases of violence, physical or psychological, Wassit is not suitable: contact emergency services or a victim support organisation. The AI gives no legal advice on divorce, custody or inheritance.
Frequently asked questions
Will my partner see what I wrote in anger?
No. Only the version you have reviewed and approved is sent. Your first draft stays between you and Wassit.
Is this couples therapy?
No. Wassit helps you talk in writing without things escalating. It replaces neither a therapist nor a professional family mediator.
Does the other party see my original message?
Never. They only read the version you have reviewed and approved. If you paste aggressive text back into the suggestion, it is checked again before it is sent.
What happens to my data?
Conversations are deleted automatically after the case is closed. You can withdraw your consent at any time from your dashboard.
Ready to write the first message?
Your original message is never shown to the other party. Creating an account and opening your first case are free.
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